Posted by Kristi on December 10, 2001, at 23:26:29
In reply to Re: nononnoonoononono, posted by JohnDoenut on December 10, 2001, at 22:27:49
Strip joints arent all that you see on t.v. some of them are respectable..and if it's a means to an end Sar, I see no reason not to do it. you know yourself. I do know from personal experience(living in Las Vegas) that getting in with the wrong crowd can just about kill you... but I also know some very well together strippers, that are in it for the money and not the job. You know yourself well enough. I personal wouldn't do it..... but I also have nothing against it. a job is a job. People have been telling me since I moved here to do it but Hell... I'm just too shy. I don't like most of the men that hang out in those joints anyway.
If you see a problem starting..... with your self esteem or any other problem that starts to inensify..... you mentioned self worth..... just get out. Your not locked in their don't remember. You don't strike me as one to give in to peer pressure......... well, you've been in the business already and you know what it's all about. I won't lecture you. as I said... I know some woman who strip to get thru college and they are just as normal as the next. Please let me know how it goes. Will be thinking alot about you. Love ya kiddo, Kristi
> >it's extreme exploitation of both the sexes and
> > it's an interesting job, but i am scared. i am also resourceful.
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> You should be scared. A lot of rifraf mafioso types are associated with that stuff and may want to take advantage. But you probably know that already.
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> Since we're being honest Ill tell you something. When I was younger and didnt know any better I went with guys to strip bars for the first few times and it was quite something to me having never seen it before and also just well you know. . .
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> But later as I got older if I would go for a bachelor party or something I was not as amused. In fact I was not comfortable with it anymore. The last time I went was about a year ago for a friends bachelor party. It was sort of a chore. Ive decided now that Im not going to any more bachelor parties. Or at least Ill go to the dinner part but not the strip bar part. It just makes me queasy now. And believe me I can appreciate the form of the human body however I'd rather see a painting or my SO. . .
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> JohnD
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