Posted by Simcha on December 3, 2001, at 15:10:26
In reply to Very Very Very Sad...... Need Help!, posted by Simcha on December 3, 2001, at 11:30:04
Thank you for your support.
To answer a few questions:
1. He claimed that he wanted to break up for me because I did not meet the qualifications for his "ideal mate."
2. Then he said he realized that his notion of the perfect mate (He said it was a carbon copy of himself!!!! What crap!!!) does not exist and that it was unfair to hold me to those super-human standards.
3. To all of this I wanted to shout, "GROW UP!" (I mean he is 36 and I'm almost 32. I've realized that my "perfect fantasy mate" does not exist. I accepted that fact a long time ago. Where has he been?
I guess I really need to evaluate why I'm working so damn hard to remain attached to this man. That would be something to do.
poster:Simcha
thread:14796
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