Posted by JohnDoenut on December 3, 2001, at 12:26:05
In reply to Very Very Very Sad...... Need Help!, posted by Simcha on December 3, 2001, at 11:30:04
Sorry to hear it. What akc said!
I think you should examine why he wanted the breakup to begin with and then explore those issues with him and find out what made him change his mind and if those issues are resolved or not. If you dont get truth then its time to get off. Trust your heart not your brain. If you feel after that you cant trust him then the rollercoaster ride has come to the end, time to get off and go on the next attraction!
In the end, you cannot be responsible for what other people think and feel and do. You can only do this for yourself. Be true to yourself and the rest will follow. Good luck!!!
JohnD
ps - I got some sleep and now I feel better.
> Ladies and Gentlemen,
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> I am sad. My life sounds like a really bad country song.
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> My boyfriend has been caretaking me do death!!!! He's been so afraid to express his feelings in front of me for fear of triggering me...
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> This past month he has been such a dear. He's
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