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Re: Thank you for writing

Posted by happyflower on October 6, 2007, at 16:42:18

In reply to Thank you for writing happyflower, posted by jacs on October 6, 2007, at 9:02:29

Hi Jacs,

I read your posts and it sounds so much like me, it is kinda freaky. But please don't be sorry for writing your posts, it helps a lot of people who are afraid to post about it. It seems like it is sort of a taboo to write about our parents or talk about them in a negative way whether on the boards or in real life.

YOu know I feel the same way with friends, that it is easy to feel left down by them if they don't put the energy into the relastionship that we do. I am just finding I need other friends. lol But I understand that feeling, I have felt it most of my life. But one thing I do know is that is usually isn't us, it is something on their end that doesn't make being a friend to them easy. So try not to be too hard on yourself, but I know easier said than done. lol

Ohhh, the anger! Yes of course you have anger! I still have anger, but therapy is helping. I am one that is okay with anger. You have ever right to be angry, so let that sh*t out and you will feel better. It is like poison
inside of you , if you can learn to let out a little bit at a time, it won't seem so overwhelming. But if you learn to let out more and more of what is building up inside of you , you will probably feel more lighter and feel better. The anger is there for a reason, so try to accept that you have a right to feel angry. It is better to get it out (in a safe way) than to let it eat at you. Take care of yourself!


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