Posted by deerock on July 1, 2009, at 20:26:00
In reply to Re: analyst seems to not be working » deerock, posted by garnet71 on July 1, 2009, at 20:11:46
For example - maybe in terms of 'success' and 'failure' in giving in to your cravings, parellel to the success and failure of the therapy itself?
Can you explain what you mean by that?
thanks for replying to me. i definitely agree with you about fit. we are quite different. im an immigrant and she is, well, she wont tell me anything...so i dont know. all i know is what i can guess and i have never honed in on trying to get her to tell me more about herself. im sure that has lots to do with wanting to leave as well. some resentment over her gaurding personal information about herself. its weird. analysis is all a game. once i asked if she had kids and she said if you really want to know we can negotiate that. negotiate? maybe being an immigrant that word has different meaning for me.
anyhow, thanks and have a nice day.
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