Posted by muffled on May 9, 2009, at 11:42:41
In reply to Apparently my T's plan is..., posted by TherapyGirl on May 5, 2009, at 18:53:04
Hey TG, sorry you struggling.
Sorry its so hard.
Seems there is no answer.
I suck at goodbyes.
Goodbyes suck.
Is there any chance that you can email T 1x/mo so you know she out there?
Other than that, you will need to find a new source of support.
Just the way it is.
Hard, sucks, but reality.
The reality also is , is that you CAN live w/o her. You can.
Course you don't want to, but you can.
Anyhow, I started reading this free story on the net and its bout attachment to T. I dunno if its any good as I just started it, but it made me think of you.
Maybe there's some ideas in it? I dunno.
FWIW, I think this panoc of separation etc is comming from a child part, and so needs to be appraoched and comfprted from a child POV....which is challenging. Kids are kinda all over and don't seems to make sense from an adlut POV, but they kids and thats how they are.
I wonder if you could find a T that works more with ego states, or ? I dunno, like family systems? or something, but anyways a T that will work w/the younger parts of self, which IMHO we ALL have. I am not talking dissociation, but just child parts of self.
Mayber you could try and appraich that part?
Maybe you could have your T try and approach this child part, and maybe she could communicate better w/you if she understood she was communicating w/a child part?
You can get thru this TG.
Not easy, but I thnk you got what it takes. And I can see you in the future helping others w/their struggles.
You've made it this far.
Keep going.
Oh, here's link, I apologize in advance if its awful....
http://home.comcast.net/~riversrages/DeepTherapy/intro.htm
I just wanted to post this cuz I not have much time these days and wanted to posdt to you or it might slip by.
Please takle care OK?
((((((TG))))))
Muffled
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