Posted by rskontos on October 6, 2008, at 15:44:21
In reply to Re: Going Crazy..............., posted by Dinah on October 6, 2008, at 9:08:42
Well Dinah, as much as I love my DH sometimes he is insensitive. HaHa about them waiting on me. Hell would freeze over first. He should admit it. But so far, nada. I have told him several times, I am going to blow like a volcano. He is amazing at his ability to just go into his shell and ignore all that is going on around him and work. He is suppose to take off this whole time but he went to the office yesterday and today and tomorrow he is off to Chicago. So much for that crap of being here the whole time.
The whole 20 years we have been married my relationship with my IL's have been tenuous. In the beginning they insisted I can them mom and dad. It made me uncomfortable. They got mad if I called them by their given names. So now 20 years later I don't call them anything. It is weird. My FIL gets mad at strange stuff. He is easily insulted. He is one of those that gets affronted. So right now I have affronted him by letting my H clean the kitchen because I am not supposed to lift or reach. My FIL said it is not man's work to clean the kitchen. I was so upset at that. I said the doctor said I am not too lift or reach. He said it is still woman's work. I said in this house we take turns. He had an angry look on his face. And since that night he has brought that up repeatedly. I said that might work in your marriage for you to make all the decisions and your wife goes along but in some marriages it would not fly.
And the kissing thing. Uggg. My T said to tell them how it makes me uncomfortable and if they get insulted that is their problem not mine.
Thanks so much for your support.
And thanks for letting me dump.
It means so much to have this venting opportunity. Otherwise I would be taking a whole bottle of xanax.
rsk
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