Posted by rskontos on October 6, 2008, at 15:09:30
In reply to Re: Going Crazy..............., posted by JayJ on October 5, 2008, at 20:58:19
JayJ,
I do tend to do that "Strong" thing. I also "perform". I don't even know I do it mostly. It was how I coped growing up. How I survived a rough and vile childhood. I did dump on my T and he helped tremendously. He can appeal to my intelluctual side which helps me control the emotional side until he can diffuse it to the point I can handle the emotions. He gave me ways to help me through the rest of the time. And he told me to be frank with them about the hugging and kissing stuff that freaks me out. I told him it reminds of some of my mothers "boyfriends". It is just too freaky. Makes my skin crawl.
I have tried talking to my husband on numerous occasions. I have learned he is just not ever going to get it in terms of the relationship with his parents and me. It is something that is going to be a deal breaker if I let it. He can't because he is immobolized by his father and mother.
And I like the "appointments" idea. I do have a chiropractor appointment and one with the surgeon on Friday. Thank god.
I think I might go help out with one of the presidential campaigns. LOL
Thanks so much for your understanding.
rsk
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