Posted by sassyfrancesca on September 17, 2008, at 8:17:49
I don't know if this subject belongs here or not; so hope it is okay.
Some of you know that I've been in love with my t for 4 years, but haven't acted on my feelings....which is miracle...since he has been leading me on.
I just had to get this out......last night he was stroking his leg and upper thigh; my reaction was to laugh really hard; I felt embarrassed, confused and unfortunately turned-on......(after 3 years with no sex...arrghhh).
Anyway, he asked if it was "distracting/disrespectful" etc....I couldn't say anything, and needed to process the flood of feelings.
Next week I intend to tell him that his behavior was provocative and an invitation....to touch him...I read in a body-language book that when you touch yourself, you are sending an invitation that that is where you want that person to touch you.
So, just had to get that out; it had me shook up.
Thoughts, reactions would be much appreciated. There is no one else for me to discuss this with.
I am also going to tell him that unless he wants me to touch HIM, to NOT stroke himself again in my presence.
Hugs, Sassy
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