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Re: T Touching Himself

Posted by sassyfrancesca on September 17, 2008, at 12:31:39

In reply to Re: T Touching Himself » sassyfrancesca, posted by lemonaide on September 17, 2008, at 12:17:50

> Hey Sassy,

Hey, twin!
>
> It is clear that he is attracted to you, you know that, I am wondering why you continue to post what he does? You know what he is doing it wrong, I am just wondering do you need validation on what he is doing is wrong or validation that he cares for you?

I guess validation that he is being unethical; it is SO confusing, because he mixes professionalism with the come-ons. Kind of like being gas-lighted, ya know?
>
> One thing I learned the hard way about my old T, is that I do really want to be with a guy who goes against ethical rules of his career and moral rules in regards to his marriage. I think any therapist who does this is nothing but a creep and a slimeball. They are using their position to take advantage of those who come to them, who trust them to help them. It reminds me of a parent child molester who uses their own child to satisfy their own needs. A child of corse trust a parent and thinks the abuse is love from the parent because they know no other love.

I agree.
>
> Sassy, you are single, attractive, and interesting, you could get a much better man than the one you say you are in love with.

Alone for 3 years, cannot even find a guy friend, so my t is the only "man" in my life. If I met a man, I could walk away.

Something I want to ask you, is why don't you feel you deserve better? The one guy you mentioned you were married to was abusive, so I wonder have you ever experienced real love that wasn't abusive or against the rules?

No, I never have.

> One thing for me that has helped me break those emotional chains is distance from my old T and to get another T to help me break those chains of obsessive thoughts about them. I absolutely hate what this guy is doing to you,

Thankyou, sweetie!

you really need help to get a objective view of what is going on. You may even find your feelings of being in love is something else.
>
Well in a few months, I have to tell him I cannot see him anymore....no money.

Thanks for caring, twin....

Love, Sassy
>


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