Posted by rskontos on May 8, 2008, at 22:22:56
In reply to Re: A New Understanding (long), posted by Happyflower on May 8, 2008, at 21:13:32
HF, just answering and caring is enough. Yes I have had reservations. And in looking back, I realized I knew more than I thought I just overlooked it due to my state of mind at the time. But now, I need to be connected to go further and I am not nor am I going to be. Too many things in the way of it. I have addressed I think as well as I am capable at this point and he as the therapist needs to pick up the slack. I don't not trust him as he hasn't dont anything to hurt me but then he has not had a great deal to inspire me either. Does that make sense. I don't feel about him like everyone else who talks about their therapist and transference isn't going to happen. So that makes me think I need another. I even told him I did not think I could see him as a parental figure without him doing more. But I did not see a change. So do i give it more time or what. I just don't know. I did cut down on sessions. It is cost too much too as he is out of network too. I can't help but to start to think about that too now.
Oh man oh man. What a mess.
Thanks for the reply.
Hope you had a good time on vacation though.
rsk
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