Posted by raisinb on March 29, 2008, at 11:39:36
In reply to Wise wise words » Daisym, posted by seldomseen on March 29, 2008, at 5:58:47
Seldom, I do exactly the same things.
I guess I'm still in the place where I believe they are helping me--if this T is not right for me, or is messing up, or is simply unable to provide what I really need, or doesn't care--then I'm doing the right thing by keeping my defenses strong. I'm setting boundaries and taking care of myself.
Or...I'm just too scared of real intimacy to take the risk.
If I could decide one way or the other, then I'd really have something :)