Posted by fleeting flutterby on March 28, 2008, at 15:21:18
In reply to Re: the hardest part...**possible Trigger**, posted by B2chica on March 28, 2008, at 14:41:13
Haven't replied to others here, as I'm new and not familiar with members and hope I don't say something that will hurt more than help...... wanted you to know I'm here ....
Seems you have a few things to bring up the stress level. I'm sorry. I understand it's so difficult to be around the abuser-- I have similar circumstances too.
And about bathing a young one.... I can so relate to your not knowing because of the lack of a role model. Me too. :o( I would watch and read everything I could get my hands on that pertained to child care. Even shows like "Full House" and movies like- "Three Men and a Baby" can be, and were, role models for me and taking care of my own children.
I wish you all the best with you and your little ones. It's not easy for anyone and can be even more of a struggle for those of us that hadn't a positive roll model. I think it's good you are talking to your T. about it all.
Sounds like you are a loving and caring mother.
all the best to you and yours