Posted by Daisym on January 14, 2008, at 21:54:12
In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + rant* » MissK, posted by Maria01 on January 14, 2008, at 19:10:56
It is hard to be civil when someone essentially says "I left because you were all driving me crazy. I'm back to help point out how you are all doing therapy wrong." If I misinterpreted your remarks, please forgive me. It is so hard to interpret the written word sometimes. I'm curious if you hoped to help anyone by your post or if you really believe it is all "just" that easy.
If it was, don't you think people would go to therapy and "just" talk? Do you really think people make it harder on themselves than they have to -- on purpose?
I don't get it. I really don't. I guess it is possible for other people to read what is written here and not see the struggles and pain as real or important. Self-inflicted...feels like such a harsh judgement. And I really don't understand why it is so important to write stuff that makes people feel bad or sad or ashamed. So you'd make different choices - good for you. We aren't all so capable.
This thread had been an interesting discussion of very different views up until this point. Now I feel belittled and criticized, which is exactly why I post instead of talking about this stuff IRL. Just my opinion, of course.
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