Posted by nellie7 on December 21, 2007, at 7:20:40
In reply to Re: Bad therapy ending, posted by Eltoro on December 20, 2007, at 13:09:13
Eltoro, I don't think my T was worse than yours. I think that any T who behaves in a way which results in the client feeling extremely bad about himself, upset and confused, and allows no opportunity to clear things up is mistaken in his/her approach.
In my case I am beginning to understand that he probably had good intentions but was presumptuous in assuming that I was sane or intelligent enough to understand what he was doing. I still don't and wish I could speak to him again. He probably doesn't remember what went on but I have everything about the sessions written down and can ask him what he means when he uses certain statements. However, as of now a harsh response on his part would be too much for me and I have reason to believe he wouldn't see me anyway.
How are you dealing with what happened with your T? I hope you are feeling better about yourself.Take care,
Nellie.
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