Posted by raisinb on December 18, 2007, at 18:05:00
In reply to Bad therapy ending, posted by eltoro on December 18, 2007, at 2:45:18
Eltoro--
I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I know the pain will last for awhile.
For what it's worth, from what I can piece together from your posts, she screwed up bigtime--by letting her own feelings/reactions get out of hand.
It probably feels like the only way you can "fix" the pain is to get her to tell you why she did it, in a way that makes sense to you. But like you said, trying to get more from her might just open you up to more pain.
There are many very good therapists out there, and you can find one who is a better fit for you.
I don't know what all went on in your therapy, but expressing negativity is NOT wrong. Neither are fantasies--sexual OR nonsexual--about your T. All this is common and something Ts are trained to deal with. Please don't feel like you did something wrong for being sad, angry, needy, or sexually attracted with your T.
poster:raisinb
thread:801388
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