Posted by Gee on April 24, 2007, at 13:11:47
In reply to calling a T... and other ramblings, posted by gazo on April 24, 2007, at 10:06:42
Gazo, I'm so sorry this is so hard for you.
I'm so very much like you. As soon as I talk to someone I automatically go to the "I'm okay". I called my t one time, left a message, and she called back and was like "I got your message, you sounded really upset, what's up?" I went on to saying I was okay, and she offered to come pick me up, but I convinced her I was fine. Which in reality really wasn't the truth.
I find with my t that could be a lot more real and honnest in e-mail. Would that be an option?
Sometimes with the phone, I find it easier to leave a message and explain what's going on, on the message, and then that when when they call back, they already know, and you can just say "so, what do you think?"
As for trusting him, give him time. Trust isn't easy to build especially when you've been hurt in the past
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