Posted by frida on April 8, 2007, at 19:05:56
In reply to Re: Whats the point..????? **possible trigger** » frida, posted by TherapyGirl on April 8, 2007, at 18:55:30
Hi,
thanks for your post. It sounds you have a similar relationship. I also have put her through so many painful things and moments. She has even acknowledged this, and told me how I've made her feel frustrated, in doubt of her own capacity as a T, and many other things....because I've tested her trust sooooooo much and have really made her go through difficult moments.I also feel she has given me what my parents never did...she has told me things I ached to hear all my life..like she would have noticed and rescued me back then if she had had the chance..
and that I mattered, etc..She genuinely cares about my well-being.
I agree with what you say, they have to make a living, but if she didn't care she would have left me a long time ago. I pay her just a little, and I've made her feel really bad sometimes. But she's stuck with me.Unfortunately there are bad T's out there...but I agree that I think good T's do feel differently about this.
Thank you for your message, it helped :-)
Frida
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