Posted by Dinah on February 21, 2007, at 21:48:44
In reply to Okay, I'll try again, posted by DannaB on February 21, 2007, at 20:50:40
That's a good insight to have about your patterns. And very understandable given your history.
It's similar to my feeling like my husband doesn't particularly like me when I'm happy.
I'm not sure that's universally true about potential mates. But perhaps it's true of the people you attract when you're feeling good? So that it's the change that's an issue? So that if you met someone when you were feeling depressed, they might disapprove of your feeling better...
Of course, I say that when I laugh that my husband and I both did a 180 degree temperament change after we met each other. So I probably know not of which I speak.
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