Posted by Poet on December 30, 2006, at 14:15:57
In reply to Pulling away and closing down, posted by annierose on December 30, 2006, at 13:41:31
Hi Annierose,
I think I'd have to really ask myself if this was a therapy deal breaker. If I couldn't live with that my therapist likes someone that I have openly bashed and dislike intensely I would pull away. If I could live with it, I would stay, but would want to tell my T that I am surprised that about her judgment of character.
I would also have to ask myself *how trustworthy is that third party? versus the T I thought I knew.*
I'm sorry that you've found out something that doesn't fit with the T you imagined in real life to be. Though I think no T is how we imagine them to be, even mine who is usually quite open about herself.
Take care.
Poet
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