Posted by Honore on December 27, 2006, at 22:02:07
In reply to Re: update, posted by TherapyGirl on December 27, 2006, at 15:09:46
TherapyGirl makes a good point.
Your discussion with Ginny was in the last ten minutes of a very difficult appointment (the last one before your break).
I;ve found in the past that it's easy to misinterpret what a T means in some situations, especially when the fear of rejection or lack of caring is very much in mind.
You can hear things through that filter, which are meant in a very different way.
You were saying that you had some feelings like those with Anne, and perhaps Ginny wanted you to feel that she wouldn't just be like Anne-- that if you didn't feel safe and that you could trust her, she could help you find someone with whom you could make that connection.
She might have meant that if *you* didn't feel a fit with her, you shouldn't have to go through so much turmoil and uncertainty.
I hope so. I know you need a stable, dependable person who's there for you. I"m still hoping that Ginny can be that person.
If you can check out what she meant, maybe you'll find that it wasn't what you heard, but something different.
Honore
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