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Re: Of nightmares and transference and shame Racer

Posted by sleepygirl on July 26, 2006, at 21:38:58

In reply to Of nightmares and transference and shame, posted by Racer on July 25, 2006, at 21:30:35

There's a big part of me that is angry for you, and I think it's because I know how hard it can be to rely on someone and/or ask for help...or well, anything.

I used to really hate it when I wanted to call my T because I thought I shouldn't/there was something wrong with me/etc.
My T said something once about me just needing to soothe myself..so simple really, and made it more "OK" (for me)

I am always so afraid of doing something "wrong"-it's awful really. It's like a surge of shame on the horizon waiting to confirm my worst suspicions of myself. I cling tightly to feeling "self-sufficient"- something in me would hate to think otherwise.

I'd never want to set such ascetic standards for anyone else.


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