Posted by Racer on July 20, 2006, at 0:02:49
In reply to Re: your first T » ElaineM, posted by Karolina on July 19, 2006, at 23:11:46
If you're still bothered by what happened, then it's grist for the mill. What you wrote, about his not being able to help it, etc, is about HIM, not about YOU -- and YOU'RE the proper focus of therapy.
Truly, bringing up how you feel about what went on is appropriate, and likely to improve the therapeutic alliance.