Posted by Racer on July 18, 2006, at 17:17:59
In reply to Re: get kicked out? » Racer, posted by ElaineM on July 18, 2006, at 10:25:54
> > Sorry about triggering you. I thought about that after I posted, and wanted to take it back. Hope it didn't upset you too much. I wasn't thinking.
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> ELThanks for your response, Elaine. It's still hard for me to realize that it wasn't my fault, something I'd done wrong. Hearing it from other people kinda helps with accepting that something bad happened to me.
See, that last phrase is the problem, I think: "...happened to me." At least if it's my fault, I wasn't powerless, even if I felt that way. Does that make sense?
And as for triggering, that's not a problem. I really and truly wouldn't have written about any of it if I thought it was too much for me, I do stop when I get too upset by something, and I don't read if I get the feeling that it's not good for me. I try very hard to take responsibility for my own reactions, is what I guess I'm trying to say. Therefore, you can write anything. ;-)
Thanks again for caring.
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