Posted by milly on March 15, 2006, at 11:06:33
In reply to Plus there is more, posted by happyflower on March 15, 2006, at 9:28:42
> Lately since I disclosed the special bond that I feel with him, he has been telling me about times he things of me outside of the office.
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> Like after my 2nd concert, I was puting my stuff away, and in walks my allergist. Well he he gave me a little hug and smacked my butt. LOL He is a big flirt, but this time it got physical. Well I told my T about this, and it is like he got kinda jelous because he know my allergist and his wife.
> Well a month ago, my T was at a charity event where my allergist was preforming (he is a musican) and my T said all he could think about is my allergist touching my butt. And then he said when he talked to my allergist wife, all he could think was do you know husband is touching happyflower's butt. I couldn't believe he told me this.
> Then around X-mas, I wasn't at the gym, I am normally there everyday but my T isn't. Well he told when he didn't see me he thought about me getting ready for my big X-mas party, cooking sausage. Do most T's tell us this stuff?Nope I don't think they are supposed to, it might mess us up! It sound like he's got a bit of a struggle going on there. Sometimes I think I'd love to hear my T confess something like that but also would dread to hear it plus I'd be so worried that knowing me would damage him.
> I know he has feelings for me, I know I am on his mind sometimes outside of the office, but he is keeping his boundries. But I can tell he is struggling with how to handle the situation. But I don't see him crossing the line no matter who he feels. But it is hard when I feel the same as him, but yet we can't act on it.
A bit of a freudian slip there Happy flower!! Did you mean to write 'what' he feels not 'who' he feels!!!!! LOL
be careful ((((((((happyflower)))))))))
poster:milly
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