Psycho-Babble Psychology | about psychological treatments | Framed
This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | List of forums | Search | FAQ

Re: (((((Dinah))) Dinah

Posted by gardenergirl on January 29, 2006, at 15:14:08

In reply to Re: (((((Dinah))) happyflower, posted by Dinah on January 29, 2006, at 9:57:50

> I know he's human, and I try to make allowances for that. I really do. I even find myself trying not to bother him.

That's really interesting, in and of itself. It sort of sounds like it could be some kind of parental transference...if it were me, anyway. Something along the lines that children should be seen but not heard? I know my dad seemed to feel that way.
>
> I don't know. Maybe last week, even though I cried most of the session, maybe I picked up that he wasn't really totally there because he was too sleepy. He apologized for not being his best at the end of the session, and I mumbled something about it being ok, and he answered that it wasn't ok. But that it just was. Then he shrugged.

I realize it was the end of the session, and I applaud him for saying it's not okay. But the shrug?...I think this deserved more time and talking than you had time for. Saying it just was is a sort of reality thing. But it also has an impact on your feelings and the relationship.

When you two were fighting to relationship, it seems as if you both were. Are you both now?
>

gg

 

Thread

 

Post a new follow-up

Your message only Include above post


Notify the administrators

They will then review this post with the posting guidelines in mind.

To contact them about something other than this post, please use this form instead.

 

Start a new thread

 
Google
dr-bob.org www
Search options and examples
[amazon] for
in

This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | FAQ
Psycho-Babble Psychology | Framed

poster:gardenergirl thread:603404
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20060121/msgs/604180.html