Posted by B2chica on January 19, 2006, at 11:29:45
In reply to I wonder what pathology it is in me, posted by Dinah on January 19, 2006, at 10:51:26
> Shouldn't I expect that he won't call and be pleasantly surprised when he does?NO, you should be able to rely on him. that's the point of therapists.
> I went through this with my mother too. So I know what I need to do. Never ever ever rely on her for anything whatsoever. Never ever ever expect her to behave like a rational human being. And then you can have an adequate relationship with her.BOY, do i hear you there. and i have to agree. i never expect any help or comfort from her, and i expect nothing less than psychopathic behavior from her. i'm ALWAYS on my guard with her.
it's too bad we have to protect ourselves like this.
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b2c
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