Posted by allisonross on November 12, 2005, at 16:44:59
In reply to My T says..., posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 16:20:31
> Hey, Happy Flower: Are you sure we are not sisters? Didn't we go to different schools together?!
My t said the same thing (can't help who you fall in love with), and I had said it.
that you can't help who you fall in love with. He has also said that you fall in love with someone who fills your needs at the moment, maybe not someone for the rest of your life. My T says you can't control your feelings or thoughts.
> So if he has feelings for me, he couldn't help it right? But you can control your actions, he says, which is right.My t says "as long as we talk about it, it isnt dangerous." We\ve talked about it a LOT.
So I don't know what I am trying to say but could it be possible for a T to fall in really fall in love with a client?
Why not? we are ALL human.
My t sez "therapy is a sexual dance." (Darn! I only wish he'd dance), and that he is very aware of a client being a woman, and he a man, etc....he is VERY aware of my irrisistableness!! LOO, LOL, Gosh knows, I love to flirt and play, and so does he. He told me "you are so much fun to play with."
eneNow I know it is his job to control his actions and he is, but couldn't my T be in love with me?
Of course he could, and probably is.
I am quite sure mine is, but he hasn't verbalized those words, but he HAS verbalized tons of stuff to say he is. When we were discussing my/our feelings he said (gulp), "you want me....to want you." Almost fell off the bed (ahhhh, I MEAN couch, LOL, LOL----thatza joke, a joke, a fantasy, only)
Could it happen after all I am so lovable and irrestritable!
We MUST be sisters. Outrageous (in a refined way, is my style, LOL)LOL
Hugs, sis (Ally)
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