Posted by Jadah on July 28, 2005, at 18:27:50
In reply to Re: Can someone Re-Direct? » Jadah, posted by Susan47 on July 27, 2005, at 23:54:59
I appreciate your opinion. My view, as you know is quite different. My T's wife is also a therapist. Sometimes people are better at fixing other peoples lives than they are their own. At this point in our relationship, I do not feel that I can go back to "therapy" with him. I also do not feel that I need it at this time. He is there to listen to me as a friend, I talk to him when I need to. The only reason I am seeking a T now is just to help me detach from him and process my feelings of loss once this ends. I am curious though.... when I first wrote about my situation last year... your view was different, in fact you were behind me 100%. What has changed? He has been a savior for me. Forget ethics for a minute, put his occupation aside... hes just a man, hes human, he has feelings.... so do I. We just met under different circumstances. Had I met him differently, It would be like any other relationship. I realize he is married. It happens, right or wrong. You dont know him like I do. He doesnt just tell me things so that I wont ruin him. I wish you could know him so you could see... I hope someday you meet someone that could do for you what he has done for me (someone other than your T), maybe you have. I just dont understand your shift in opinion, but it is your right, and I appreciate it.
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