Posted by Damos on June 28, 2005, at 18:58:08
In reply to Re: grr, posted by alexandra_k on June 28, 2005, at 18:09:04
No, you didn't mess up at all. Your were honest and just plain stood up for yourself. I'm very proud of you.
You didn't rant and rave, though you're more than a little entitled to. You stated the truth of your situation, cause and effect clearly and articulately and with great composure, whn I know for sure that's not how you're feeling. That he chose not to even acknowledge the integrity of your position, your feelings of hurt and being lost is not a reflection on you. Your words broke my heart and made me want to reach out to you in evry possible way. If they didn't effect him so, again the fault lies with him not you.
You could have said a lot worse in your emails and chose not to. That says a lot about you Alex, a lot of good things. You look at the way he responds to you compared with how say 10der's T responds to her emails etc. Your p-doc just doesn't get it and that's not your fault.
Please be okay Alex, because being your friend means the world to me and makes me want to be better than I know how to be.
((((((((((Alex))))))))))
poster:Damos
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