Posted by Dinah on May 4, 2005, at 20:32:03
In reply to Re: Is friendship supposed to be better? » Dinah, posted by JenStar on May 4, 2005, at 20:21:40
> Maybe it's because it's hard to "get" that someone who sees the "real us" isn't magnetically drawn to us; doesn't go crazy trying to find a way to be with us all the time. After all, if we're so great (which we're learning to feel about ourselves), why isn't the T breaking down doors to be our friend? Anyway, that's the way it would go in MY mind, I think!
Ahhhh. Ok, that I understand. I guess I assume it's because he's so darned delighted to be my therapist (wink) that he couldn't bear to leave that behind. :)
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> I admire the kind of relationship you have with your T. I think it's really a good role-model of what the healthy client/T relationship looks like!
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> take care,
> jenStarThanks JenStar. I've always thought it works so well precisely because I have no further desires from him. So I do understand that.
I suppose I'm a bit hampered by the fact that I'm very skilled at wanting what's possible to have, and pretty much never noticing if on the odd chance I actually want something more.
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