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Re: Women and ADD (Long) Susan47

Posted by pinkeye on April 19, 2005, at 21:55:22

In reply to Re: Women and ADD (Long), posted by Susan47 on April 19, 2005, at 21:37:35

It doesn't sound ridiculous at all.. infancy does play a major role in our emotions shaping up. In fact the early years of childhood creates so much more influence on us than the rest of the life.. doesn't mean that it is not changeable and the rest of the life doesn't matter, but what you learn early on matters a whole lot more.

When I was in my mother's womb, my fahter kept threatening my mom that he wanted to abort me.. All the time from what I learnt later on. And my mother cried so much during throughout the pregnancy.. because my father was so merciless. and angry and shouting at her. and pretty much after I was born also, till I was about 13 - 14 years old, my father shouted at my mom all the time.. I remember being so very afraid of my dad.. every day several times he will shout at her so much.. it was pure hell. he loved me a lot, but he didn't like my mother.. and he had all strange notions about life, and even though he was basically a very very good man, he absolutely didn't have any clue how to keep a family happy. That terror is still there in my life. He completely rejected my mother. and I think I somehow transfered all the feelings onto myself and took the blame for all of it. Childhood does matter a whole lot. So don't reject your kids. IT will be there for their lifetime. And what are you going to get by running after a threapist who wasn't avaialble to you and who will not even know if you live well or not and won't care? Try to turn that attention towards your kids - becuase it will make a huge difference in their lives.

You are right about getting old. It totally sucks. When there is nothing to look forward to excpet death. That is why I believe in religion, and thankfully, my religion supports the therory of rebirth.. so I know even if I die, I am going to be born again.


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