Posted by littleone on February 24, 2005, at 21:21:21
In reply to From Molehill to Kathy Bates, posted by daisym on February 24, 2005, at 0:34:32
> After much poking and prodding he finally told me that what I was feeling was "normal and expected" and he does want to hear about it. That I'm not "scary" and he is really Ok with how we are working together.
Daisy, you are one of the most un-scariest people I know. Was Adult Daisy insulted by that? I can imagine that Adult Daisy could be ruthless if need be. But not scary.
And I could also imagine that some of that ruthlessness could drift over to little Daisy. But in an innocent way. Like in the form of determination. Or like clinging to your T. But that certainly doesn't *make* little Daisy ruthless or scary.
And by the way, neither adult or little Daisy look anything like Kathy Bates in my eyes :)
Oh, and re your mountians out of mole hills, I definately do that too. Like I find stuff to prove my beliefs and completely turn a blind eye (unconciously of course) to anything that could question or disprove the belief.
Think of how wonderful life would be if all your beliefs were positive (eg the world is a nice place to be) and you only saw/heard/read things that proved those positive beliefs. *sigh*.
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