Posted by rs on February 24, 2005, at 6:05:11
In reply to From Molehill to Kathy Bates, posted by daisym on February 24, 2005, at 0:34:32
Hi Daisy me again. I enjoy posting to you because we have much in common when it comes to therapy.
Daisy I have the same issues with therapy. Being DID have many small parts that are needy, jealous etc. There was so much time could not accept that T cared. Well finally slowly am saying hey he does care and it is ok. T tells me all the time that special and he cares. Fighting it in many different ways with different feelings. Went to session the other day and when got home felt different. Did not have that feeling of missing t and being lonely with it all. In there somplace was yes he cares and we are special. What a difference.
Daisy let him care. Let him in. Let him help you. You were hurt and did not get this. Today you deserve with little Daisy. Honeslty slowly you will feel it and brings the whole realtionship together. I remember asking my T how many people he sees in one day. Many. Then I said how can you share that much caring with all. He response was it is different. Daisy he cares for me. He accepts me. It is ok if I am needy it is ok that small parts are needy hurt etc.
Please let him care. You are worth it and tell yourself that. Please. Lots of hugs if ok.
Sorry about the typing. Again hope it is ok to jump in here.
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