Posted by Still Hurting on March 19, 2004, at 22:44:17
In reply to Re: admiting to stalking u T » Dinah, posted by pegasus on March 16, 2004, at 16:54:43
Hey Guys,
I stalked my therapist for 7 months and she won a protection order against me last month. I'm surprised that you guys missed it, cause I posted it in here.
These are the ways I stalked my therapist:
1. phone calls (either calling and talking or calling and hanging up)
2. email letters (whether addressed by me or some fake name)
3. driving by her workplace
4. driving by her house
5. sitting outside her house
6. walking up to her house (i was going to flatten her tires many nights. I got real close but I just couldn't)
7. checking out the apt adjacent to her's.
8. looking up public information on her, her children, her parents.
9. talking to others to get info about her, her children, her parents.
10. search engines on the internet
11. calling psychics, spiritualists, etc.
12. calling her friends for info.
13. meeting her ex-husband for info.
14. driving by her mother's house
15. using other extensions to forward calls to her
16. talking to her other clients to see if they felt the same way I did.
17. calling government depts to find out info on her.God I had it reallll bad. I've never seen this side of me in any relationship. I truly appreciated this woman in my life. Not only as a therapist, but she was really a great person. Our intellectual knowledge seemed to ignite the room. She was a blessing. Unfortunately, she realized my attachment to her and kicked me to the curve. But the termination bought out the worse in me and I behaved accordingly. I believe that if she talked to me about the attachment it would have been better eliminated. In a way I'm glad she's won the order because this helps me to say good-bye to a dead relationship.
And I hope that you guys too can say good-bye to a never satisfing relationship and hello to people out there that really want to love you and will.
poster:Still Hurting
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