Posted by tinydancer on January 31, 2004, at 10:48:37
I wanted to get back to everyone about this topic. Because I did finally ask my T if he had ever had a sexual fantasy about me. I didn't come right out and say it, of course, in the end he just blurted it out, "If I have sexual fantasies about you?" I was mortified but yet I had to ask.
He did ask first why I wanted to know, what my reaction would be both ways, and then I got really slutty and said that I wouldn't believe him if he said no. Unbelievable...
Finally he said that he *would* answer me, and the answer was yes. That he had, but that it was not anything that he was obsessed about or that happened on a regular basis. He also made it clear that it didn't mean (obviously) that he had changed his mind about my numerous "offers" (haha). It was amazing that he dared to be so honest. I feel like I have the most amazing T in the world. To know that I can ask him anything is a good feeling. And to know that he will not get mad at me for it.
What is your reaction to that he answered yes? I am interested in hearing.
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