Posted by Karen_kay on January 18, 2004, at 21:15:33
In reply to Re: being Special » Karen_kay, posted by dragonfly25 on January 18, 2004, at 20:08:29
Well, about his wife.... She seems rather drab and boring and not very pretty to me. She picture I saw (well, the first picture, as I've seen two now) was in her wedding gown (making things 20 times worse, since it seems to be such an intimate moment) and the dress was very poofy, her hair well, I just don't want to be disrespectful...I do want to be disrespectful as I don't think I like her because she doesn't let him get enough sleep (like that's her fault???) but I'm choosing to step away with what little dignity I still have(??????)... I did find a different picture of her and her hair wasn't as poofy but she just seemed rather "Sarah Plain and Tall", you know? No makeup, well just nothing stood out about her.
I know that he just recently moved here, as in last year to start practicing. And he just took some big test???? Does anyone have a clue what I'm talking about?? Maybe I'll ask him. But he's very new at this. So we seem to match up perfectly, as I'm very new at this as well :) And I have a preference for "rookies."
But it really great to have everyone else here to come back to and question as well. So, I ask him question after question. Then I rush home and ask you guys/gals question after question about his response. Then I go in and requestion him about his response. Shew! This is a never-ending process! I agree with the poster who said that you need therapy to cope with therapy. Or maybe I just need 2 sessions a week. One session for questions and one session for my issues! That's a logical solution, right?
I can't help wondering though, with my incessant questions am I really solving things (because they truly do help solve issues) or am I avoiding the hard things that I need to deal with. Typically, we spend half the session dealing with my "father issues" and then the rest of the time is "fun time" as I call it. Is this a good balance? It helps to keep me sane at least.
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