Posted by Kalamatianos on December 30, 2003, at 0:18:38
In reply to I'm lost, posted by DaisyM on December 29, 2003, at 22:35:38
Boy, can I relate! ...to the chocolate part...lol
The operant word is *need*. I've been heard saying, "I neeeeeeed Chocolate!" (followed by heavy panting and a frantic look on my face).Sounds like you feel that *obligation to your "primary dependency object" syndrome*... Picture how your T would look if you were *enough* instead of *needy*.
Also, could you report back another picture? Picture yourself in a room with your T, ordering them around like a butler or maid.
Does this picture evoke anger or fright?
Now, is that picture in color or black and white? How you see this picture will indicate the level of obligation. [NLP]
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