Posted by DaisyM on December 30, 2003, at 14:37:19
In reply to Re: I'm lost, posted by Rigby on December 30, 2003, at 10:09:48
<<<I suppose being aware of your discomfort with this dependency might be a good thing--a good issue to work through; chances are if you're uncomfortable with it you'll work through it--consciously or not you're brain and heart just won't want to stay there.
It is one of the MAIN issues we are working on. But trust/dependency is pretty hard for me. I know there is a middle ground, sometimes I think I'm there, then things get so intense and personal and scary...I'm back to needing to check to make sure he is OK and handling all of this and not bailing on me. That is the "need" for me.
I'm glad you found the middle ground. Do you have a map?
poster:DaisyM
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