Re: Thanx folks..Susan, Dinah, Shar

Posted by Susan J on October 1, 2003, at 8:43:23

In reply to Thanx folks..Susan, Dinah, Shar, posted by jay on September 30, 2003, at 23:12:13

Jay,
Good to hear you are feeling a bit better. I had one other thought, or maybe someone else has posted it here and it just happened to ring very true for me.
It's almost scary to *stop* grieving for someone you've lost. It's almost like -- if the grief is gone, it somehow devalues how much you truly loved the person. But that's not true. Your love for people was HUGE, even if you do start to feel better. Once you feel better, you can look back fondly on memories and experience the connection to the in a whole different, and much happier way.

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Is knowing and loving someone worth...... jay 9/24/03
Re: Is knowing and loving someone worth...... » jay Susan J 9/25/03
Re: Is knowing and loving someone worth...... » jay Dinah 9/25/03
Re: Is knowing and loving someone worth...... » jay shar 9/27/03
Thanx folks..Susan, Dinah, Shar jay 9/30/03
Re: Thanx folks..Susan, Dinah, Shar Susan J 10/1/03
Re: Thanx folks..Susan, Dinah, Shar » Susan J jay 10/4/03
Understand Completely » jay Susan J 10/4/03
yes, yes, and yes WakingDreamer 10/14/03
Re: yes, yes, and yes jeff g 10/31/03

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