Posted by Partlycloudy on March 20, 2014, at 10:00:12 [reposted on March 20, 2014, at 23:06:26 | original URL]
In reply to Re: blocked for week » Twinleaf, posted by Dr. Bob on March 20, 2014, at 2:06:44
> > You seem to have developed differing roles and responses depending on which poster you are talking to.
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> Well, I'm only human.
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> > on this thread you are indicating that you might like to function in a similiar way to Dinah's and vWoolf's therapists at their most natural and best, despite the statement at the top of the board that the discussions here do not constitute therapy.
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> Being authentic doesn't necessarily mean you're being a therapist.
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> > There are some very vulnerable people here, perhaps without therapists of their own, who may become excessively dependent on you - this isn't in their best interest, because you really can't be a therapist to them
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> Not being a therapist doesn't necessarily mean people can't depend on you.
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> > you have singled me out for exceptionally harsh and punitive treatment.
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> > We just don't seem to have an administrator any longer with fair, uniform standards which we can understand and work with.
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> Please don't post anything that could lead others (including me) to feel accused.
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> More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
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> I tried exceptionally lenient treatment:
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> minimal administrative action
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20131217/msgs/1060325.html
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> mild sanction
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20140304/msgs/1062264.html
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> and it seems not to have been effective, so I'm returning to standard operating procedure and blocking you.
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> Follow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
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> Thanks,
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> BobNot happy! You're OK with someone else on the board being called a prick - and you laugh at it - but you are pretty thin skinned yourself.
Somehow, this feels like bullying behaviour towards Twinleaf in an obvious way.
Please consider lowering the block or rescinding it.Thank you
PC
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