Re: blocked for week » Twinleaf

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 20, 2014, at 2:06:44

In reply to Re: differing roles..... » Dr. Bob, posted by Twinleaf on March 18, 2014, at 17:12:40

> You seem to have developed differing roles and responses depending on which poster you are talking to.
Well, I'm only human.
> on this thread you are indicating that you might like to function in a similiar way to Dinah's and vWoolf's therapists at their most natural and best, despite the statement at the top of the board that the discussions here do not constitute therapy.
Being authentic doesn't necessarily mean you're being a therapist.
> There are some very vulnerable people here, perhaps without therapists of their own, who may become excessively dependent on you - this isn't in their best interest, because you really can't be a therapist to them
Not being a therapist doesn't necessarily mean people can't depend on you.
> you have singled me out for exceptionally harsh and punitive treatment.
>
> We just don't seem to have an administrator any longer with fair, uniform standards which we can understand and work with.
Please don't post anything that could lead others (including me) to feel accused.
More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
I tried exceptionally lenient treatment:
minimal administrative action
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20131217/msgs/1060325.html
mild sanction
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20140304/msgs/1062264.html
and it seems not to have been effective, so I'm returning to standard operating procedure and blocking you.
Follow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
a brilliant and reticent Web mastermind -- The New York Times
backpedals well -- PartlyCloudy

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