Posted by EmilyAnn on July 6, 2002, at 20:00:03
In reply to Thank You and follow up, posted by Mr. Scott on July 4, 2002, at 18:56:25
Hey. First, you are not bothering anyone and what you are going through is not nonsense.
It sounds like you really want help. You can do something about your problem...there is help for you.
For substance problems there are programs like Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous that help you to get sober, stay sober, and live sober.It is VERY common that people with substance abuse/dependency also have other illnesses (bipolar, depression, anxiety, etc...) The meds and therapy can help that.
As for not going into the hospital due to repsonsibilities, I totally understand that; however, you have a responsibility to take care of your self...how can you be an effective employee, or husband, or son, or father, or friend (for examples)...if you are not taking care of yourself. Do what you must do to get stable and if that means going into the hospital or detox, my suggestion is GO FOR IT.
You do NOT need to take your life. There ARE other possibilities. You can live a happy, joyous, and free life. I know it may not seem it now..but it will happen. Please know I'm not talking out of my butt here...I've been there, I'm there now...you can do this. Just hang on.
Since you admit you are an addict, make sure your doctor knows so hopefully he won't put you on a benzo.
If you are having trouble stopping drinking and drugging and if you really want to stop....yes, withdraw can be hell. If it is really bad, a detox may help you.
These are just suggestions. I think you should talk to your doctor (psychiatrist) about all this.
You can and will be ok. Hang in there hon.
-Bernadette
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