Posted by rainbutterfly on October 13, 2006, at 22:15:46
In reply to subject, posted by zenhussy on October 12, 2006, at 0:59:32
zenhussy,
Some of the points you have made have some validity. Especially if read in a general sense, rather than directed to/about a specific person. However, I find it sad that you feel the need to present your "argument", for lack of a better word, in such an extremely judgemental manner.
I will take what I can from this post. And I will try to discard the negatives. "weak"? "beyond hope"? There is no rule here that legislates that posts are "supportive". Perhaps you are fortunate that is the case. And.....stealing? yeah ok.
I am *ss u ming this post is re. me. If I am wrong, my apologies to this board. You have made a lot of incorrect *ss u mptions about me, "over time", zenhussy, and I do not appreciate that one bit.
I wish you well, despite our differences. Thank you for writing this here, as it gives me a chance to reply, in the light, so to say. I have read several side swipes typed by your hand in various places. Here and one other place, to be exact. I would congecture (and I haven't looked this word up to check for accurate meaning) such behaviour does not qualify as "healthy". As for your earlier comment re. being followed. (I seem to recall you expressed it in another........ more judgemental....... way). That is a very unpleasant FEELING that I have experienced myself. However, I did NOT come here to follow you. Frankly, I would be much happier if you were not here!! And if you were not judging.... um I mean reading... my posts elsewhere. I would feel MUCH safer. No offense intended... those are my honest feelings.
My hope is that, with time, either your judgements will mellow slightly or I will have changed enough for your feelings to change accordingly. In any case, I hope we can both co-exist in the vast cyber world without further hurt on either side. I have been VERY hurt by you. As you have said, several times, that feeling of hurt has been mutual.... I regret any part I have played in such dynamics. I do NOT accept all the responsibility for EVERYTHING that went wrong, however.
rainbutterfly
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