Posted by Joan797 on August 15, 2006, at 6:36:15
In reply to Full Circle, posted by susan47 on August 10, 2006, at 19:25:24
Justification or validity to our feelings? Or is it that we simply crave acknowledgement of them? Somehow I keep thinking that if I tell someone how badly they have hurt me, they will in turn feel bad and appologize to me and of course we will become so much closer for it. Which is in all reality the biggest pile of b*llshit around.
Telling him you love him and not being scorned for it is exactly what you deserved, but in your t-patient relationship it was a sticky situation that I don't think he handled well. Could he not have taken that information and worked with you on it instead of totally shunning you into some sort of humiliation?
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