Posted by Joan797 on July 27, 2006, at 7:52:09
In reply to Re: Why, posted by susan47 on July 26, 2006, at 23:58:34
Dearest Susan,
Would it ever be possible for you to not be near this person? Do you live in the same city, neighborhood? Is that why you keep running in to him? Would it be stupid of me to ask you...........have you ever considered moving, just to save your own sanity?? Or are your writings just reflections of past experience?
I know that in my own situation, things seem to ebb at times because I am not confronted with him or his image on a daily basis. However, in my own sick mind I seek out his image, just to see if I still feel the same way, and I do. I still get that stomach jumping thing whenever I see his picture. But I dont' have the option of driving by his house, seeing him on the street, going to the same bars, stores, etc that he does. If I lived in his area, I would be taking those options that would be unhealthy for me. Of course, according to him, if I was in his area, we would be together, which is a crock.............
It's just a thought, I don't really know how often you are seeing this person on the street, at the market, etc.....but it seems to be torturing you. I know it would torture me.
poster:Joan797
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