Posted by Estella on May 7, 2006, at 1:07:06
In reply to Re: sometimes life just doesn't work out » Estella, posted by James K on May 7, 2006, at 0:33:04
> My messes are still all over this place. I don't like the conflicting emotions I feel about this. I wish you were happier about here. I like you here. I was gone for a while, and everything is different and the same.
messes get archived eventually.
but people haul examples of this and that out of the archives
to make a point every now and then
it isn't about you
i hope you know that
it isn't about you
it is about bob
but it isn't even about bob
do you know that
it isn't even about bob
it is about past baggage
that is why it hurts so much
the past baggage
not saying that bob doesn't do stuff to maintain the analogy / fail to do stuff
to break the analogy
just saying that the reason why it hurts so bad
but knowing that doesn't help
knowing that doesn't help
there are more connections from amygdala to cortex
than from cortex to amygdala
and so whatever is in the cortex
is not really in the position to help
and there it is
but of course i'm being selfish 'cause this is about me
and past hurts
and sh*t like that
and i think i need to curl up for a while
i'm sorry life is hard for you
poster:Estella
thread:640827
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