Posted by Susan47 on May 9, 2005, at 13:36:37
In reply to sadness, posted by alexandra_k on May 9, 2005, at 5:00:08
Yeah. Clinicians do count.
That's where all your hurt
will eventually be expressed.
With your clinicians,
and you're smart enough
to be saving it for them.
In the guidelines of a clinical relationship.
Which is what you need.
What I want you to have.
When the time is right, it'll happen.
And you won't feel weak, anymore.
You'll find that the strength
was always inside you.
The needs that were never met
can actually be met by you BUT
and this is big, this really is big,
because it seems to be the only way it happens,
is that until an actual person shows you love,
and love without fear, love with acceptance and nothing
but that, no need of that person needing to be met by you,
until that happens, and that's a clinician's job, to be fearless,
unless that happens, I don't know if you'll understand
that the love is already inside you.
Once again, I've spoken for myself, from my own experience.
But I think you understand.
poster:Susan47
thread:495447
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