Posted by sunny10 on May 9, 2005, at 10:40:49
In reply to sadness, posted by alexandra_k on May 9, 2005, at 5:00:08
cutting the legs off the bed is an action.
It doesn't require that we "have all the answers inside".
I feel that I only have questions inside. If I know WHY I have these questions inside, why can't the T's actually give us concrete "actions" to take to get better??? Isn't it obvious to everyone that when they tell me to "do what is right for me" that I don't know what that IS?!?!?
After 20 yrs of on and off again therapy, no one has realized that I can't figure out what is right for me?!?!? That I am still looking for answers because I DON'T have them?!?!
Seems to me there should be life coaches instead of T's... "thinking about it" or, my personal favorite, "sleep on it" (thus ensuring nights and nights of sleeplessness!)...hunh?!?! Am I missing something here?
Am I impossible to "treat", or am I simply unable to treat myself, like they keep asking me to do!?
Aaaacccckkkk, I could just go on and on asking questions on this subject, but every answer is that "it is all within you".....
Can't someone teach me how to get "it all" OUT of "within me"?!?!?
sorry....feeling frustrated here- probably because I have decided to try again, but am very afraid of ending up with the same outcome as all of my previous attempts. No difference at all...
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