Posted by TexasChic on January 22, 2008, at 18:43:29
In reply to Re: Scared of job search failure/maxime » TexasChic, posted by ClearSkies on January 22, 2008, at 14:10:51
Thanks! Its been a slow process, but I think I'm getting there. You're right that it gets easier the more you stand up for yourself. These type of people try to make it where you can't say no without appearing unbelievably rude. That's why they pick on nice, polite, easy going people. But once you bite the bullet and make a stand (in spite of the incredulous look on their face that you're being SO RUDE!!) you realize the world doesn't end. In fact, the people around you usually are very understanding that you were obviously standing up to an unreasonable person.
-T
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